Events

The Welcome Dinner

The Riverhouse, 45130 Gallatin Rd, Gallatin Gateway, MT

6pm - 9pm

Attire: Montana Chic

June 25th evening

We are so excited to see you in Big Sky and warmly welcome you to start our weekend at The Riverhouse for dinner and drinks. Join us for a casual night on the banks of the Gallatin River with good music (thanks Shivali), welcome remarks from the groom (God help us), Montana Mules, and great company.


June 26th morning

The Hindu Ceremony

The Montage Big Sky, Grand Lawn

Chooda & Sehrabandi: 9am
Reception of Baraat: 9:30am
Ceremony: 10am

Attire: Indian Formal

The Chooda is a centuries old Hindu Punjabi tradition in which the maternal uncle adorns the bride with the Chuda. The Chuda is a set of 21 bangles that represent her first ornaments of being a bride, symbolizing a blessing of prosperity, health, and matrimonial longevity. Kaleeras, ornamental chains of gold, flowers, or beads, are hung to the bride’s chuda by her family and friends as a symbol of luck and a new beginning.

The Baraat is the groom’s arrival procession with his friends and family surrounding him. The groom's family and guests are expected to walk him in towards the bride's side of the family with songs playing as a celebration of his entrance to the venue. The “Reception of Baraat” is the meeting of the families. The male members of each side will exchange garlands signifying the joining of the families as one. The mother of the bride welcomes the groom with a prayer before the Hindu wedding ceremony begins. The Hindu wedding ceremony comprises the 7 steps taken around the sacred fire while taking vows--known as saath phera or saptapadi. Each vow and step signify a stage in the marriage that the couple will encounter. These vows are part of the Vedic rituals and sanctify the union between the two souls with the sacred Agni (fire), family, and friends as witness.

The Vidaai is a ceremony signifying the bride leaving her family and joining the groom’s. As she walks away from her family, she throws handfuls of coins and rice over her shoulders. This ceremony signifies that even though she is leaving her childhood home, she is leaving behind happiness and prosperity for her family as she joins another.


The Sangeet

The Montage Big Sky, Mountain Lawn
6:30pm - 10pm

Attire: Indian Festive

June 26th evening

The Sangeet is night of fun, food, and performances by the families and friends of the bride and groom to celebrate the upcoming wedding. At the Sangeet, we’ll also be doing Mehndi (henna) for the guests of the wedding. The groom’s initials are hidden in the bride’s mehndi and he has to find them -- if he can’t, he has to give her a gift as consolation. Traditionally, the mehndi is brought to the bride’s house from the women of the groom’s family to symbolize that the bride will now be “colored in the colors of the groom’s family.”


The Christian Ceremony

The Montage Big Sky, Grand Lawn & Ballroom

Ceremony: 5pm
Cocktail: 6pm
Reception: 7pm - 11pm
After Party: 11pm

Attire: Black Tie

June 27th evening

We welcome you Saturday evening to the Christian Ceremony that will be officiated by Chris’s “cousin,” Elizabeth DiLullo as well as an Irish blessing from Deacon Jack Flynn. The Christian ceremony follows the Hindu wedding and represents the culmination of the weekend, uniting two cultures and traditions into one shared future.

Following the ceremony will be cocktails, dancing, dinner. For the late night crew there will be an after party with beats provided by b2b DJs (best man & ben).

  • Montana Chic

    WELCOME DINNER

  • Indian Formal

    THE HINDU CEREMONY

  • Indian Festive

    THE SANGEET